Feminine Power Time: The Coherency Creator: Our Power to Create Harmony & Possibility Out of Chaos & Conflict
Feminine Leadership Archetype #7 of 8
“Through my presence, I bring things into order. I see what is out of alignment. I can pinpoint what causes disharmony.”
There is so much chaos, noise, and incoherency being thrown at us right now – and within us.
The Coherency Creator gives us access to our power to work with the field – our own inner field and the fields (ecosystems, situations, relationships, interactions) we show up in – to bring situations, relationships, and realities into a resonant state of order and harmony.
Not by fixing, saving or forcing. But through our presence. And our ability to speak and embody what is called the power of “loving truth.”
Consider this: We each can choose to be leaders in our life, relationships, teams, family systems and community. We each have the power to shift a room, create harmony and order out of chaos and conflict, and open space for new possibility. Just by showing up centered, grounded, and clear. Which sounds much easier than it is in real time practice!
In this episode, we welcome in The Coherency Creator and explore what it means to consciously wield this power in your life right now.
Here’s the transmission of the Coherency Creator … notice what resonates for you:
Through my presence, I bring things into order. I see what is out of alignment. I can pinpoint what causes disharmony. I lead us to create structure that innately creates harmony between all the parts.
The structures, systems, relationships, and forms are not linear or separate — they’re interconnected, multifaceted, and multidimensional. As a result, they open up portals and possibility to new ways of creating, relating, and operating that innately create harmonious realities that serve and elevate the whole.
Why this matters now: The chaos we are experiencing all around us is not accidental. When there is continual chaos, it keeps people stuck in the shadow frequencies of fear, blame, shame, and isolation. And we cannot create what’s next from inside of that.
The more of us who can consciously show up as coherency creators – in our own inner field first, and then in the fields around us – the more we shift what’s possible. We don’t have to fix it all. We don’t have to be at the top of a hierarchy to embody this power. Often our most powerful act is simply to be a grounded, compassionate, honest, and clear presence in the room.
We will explore:
- Coherency as a Superpower – what it actually is, why it’s so undervalued, and why the words alignment, resonance, harmony, beauty, clarity, presence, ease, and grace matter more than ever right now
- Your Body, Voice & Being as a Sword of Loving Truth – a somatic practice for understanding how your presence, energy, frequency, and essence work together to shift a room and create harmony and order out of chaos and conflict
- Incoherency Indicators – how to recognize when you’re out of coherency in yourself or in the field, so you can work with your emotions and judgments and shift your energy on the inside before responding on the outside
- The Drama Triangle Flip – moving from victim, perpetrator, and fixer into creator, challenger, and coach — a simple but mighty tool for creating coherency
- Three Practices to Create Coherency on the Inside – simple, medium, and large: Get Curious Instead of Critical; Proactive Power Pauses; and a five-part Elevation Practice for moving from incoherency to harmony step by step
👉 Want the Wisdom Inquiries from this episode? Scroll to the bottom of this post.
See you there,
Christine
P.S. ✨ Get access to other episodes in this series here on the Feminine Power Time Wisdom Library.
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Feminine Power Time 282: The Coherency Creator: Our Power to Create Harmony & Possibility Out of Chaos & Conflict
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Resources Mentioned
- A Beginner’s Guide to Constructing the Universe by Michael S. Schneider — learn more.
- Overwhelmed and Over It by Christine Arylo — Chapter 12 — learn more.
- Fall Power Pause: Reset. Release Pressure. Refocus — www.FallPowerPause.com
- Eight Facets of Compassion Podcast -> tune in here.
- Power Pauses for teams and groups → teampowerpause.com
- Feminine Wisdom Way Collective → femininewisdomway.com
- Daily Flow Kit (free) → dailyflowkit.com
Ways to Connect
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Wisdom Inquiries
Know Your Incoherency Indicators
- When I am out of coherency, I feel it in my body as…
- When I am out of coherency, my voice and how I speak…
- When I am out of coherency, what do I do to avoid dealing with it?
- When I notice the field around me heating up — what’s one thing I can do to slow down first?
Know What Coherency Feels Like For You
- When I am in coherency, I feel…
- When I walked into a space that was incoherent and held my center, what happened?
- What supports me in staying centered when things are heating up around me?
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Practices
Practice 1 (Simple): Get Curious Instead of Critical
When incoherency is present, instead of reacting, slow down. Tap your heart. Ask: what’s true inside of me right now? Then ask: what’s true in the larger field? Respond from your center of fierce grace.
Practice 2:: Proactive Power Pauses – quarterly and each new moon as reset.
Don’t wait for incoherency to become drama. Pause proactively – at the equinoxes, mid-year, year-end, and each new moon.
Check out our Personal Leadership Power Pauses., our Power Pauses for teams and groups or our co-creative collective Feminine Wisdom Way.
Practice 3: Change in the Moment : The Five-Part Elevation Practice (visual from The Feminine Wisdom Way book & collective)
- What is the imbalance here?
- What is the judgment — about yourself, someone else, or the situation?
- What is the need?
- What is the loving truth?
- What is one action to restore coherency first within you — and then in the field?
