I’d love to be your guide!
If you are here on this page with me, chances are self-love is on your mind, but like most of us you aren’t sure exactly what self-love is, if you have it, and how to DO it. You have some general ideas, but they seem vast, esoteric and loose… and you’re not even sure what a lack of self-love is costing you.
But you have a sense you need to be more committed to yourself, your needs, desires, truth. You may have some of the signs of weak self-love: Settling and playing small. Being hard on yourself. Stuck in the wrong relationships. Stuck in sabotaging patterns. Comparing yourself. Treating your body badly. Over-working and exhausting yourself, again. Over-giving. Putting your needs last.
I get it. I never knew that the reason I almost married the wrong person, almost got stuck and settled in the wrong career, constantly pressured myself to do more and do it all perfectly (no matter how much I achieved it was ever enough), obsessed about my body no matter my weight, lacked a true soul tribe of friends, worked myself into exhaustion and only let myself rest when I got sick, was because I lacked self-love.
Until the moment I asked myself, “Why do I keep creating these same self sabotaging situations, keep getting stuck in these same self-defeating thoughts?” The answer was “You may have self-esteem but you don’t love yourself, and you don’t really even know what self love is.” Wow. Kaboom!
So I turned to my friends and family. They were as clueless as me. I turned to the spiritual teachers around me. They talked about self-love in such vast esoteric terms I couldn’t grasp onto it… Forgive yourself, accept yourself, be kind to yourself… all good and great rah rah talk but I wanted to know…
HOW and where do I start? And how do I know if I am there, if I am really loving myself? So for over 15 years I have studied self-love – I lived it, experimented with it, made it tangible… And then started sharing what I found with thousands of people around the world. I learned things like:
I took all these learnings, experiences and practices that worked and made self-love tangible and real, and wrote the best-selling self-love guidebook, Madly in Love with Me the Daring Adventure to Becoming Your Own Best Friend. And then because I know books can just sit on the shelf and collect dust, I decided to show up and GUIDE people – just like you – through all the parts of self-love and grow them one by one.
What you focus on grows – that’s the law of the universe. So each week as a member of The Love Club you’ll receive simple but mighty ways to love yourself more – a monthly advanced self-love teaching, a simple but mighty self-love adventure, a special meditation, a personalized love mantra, plus a LIVE! call with me (and some of the best teachers I know) to get your questions answered and get extra support. You won’t be just thinking about taking the actions I teach about, write about, and suggest… you will start to be, think and live differently.
YOU WILL HAVE THE SUPPORT, STRUCTURE, WISDOM, INSPIRATION, and COMMUNITY YOU NEED TO STAY CONNECTED & COMMITTED TO YOURSELF (in simple ways that fit into your life, not create more to do’s.) Over the year, with me as your guide, and this community with you, you will strengthen your ability to:
– Christine, Los Angeles
– Katie F. Arizona
“Self-Love is a choice you make (or don’t) in your every action and thought… most of us just aren’t strong enough to give ourselves permission to take the loving or empowering act, change our negative thoughts – we tend to over give, over do, over work, or under express, under appreciate, under care for ourselves… which is where I and the Love Club come in.“
Christine Arylo uses humor but is very direct at the same time. This is a must do for me!!”
– Wendy, U.K.
– Sue B. Illinois
Being in the Love Club has enriched me so much.”
– Shannon W., Texas
Each month we will choose ONE BRANCH OF SELF LOVE and go deep. Think of it like applying Miracle-Love-Grow to this one aspect of your relationship with yourself for the entire month. And then the next month we will move to another, then another and you will keep growing your relationship with yourself stronger and stronger… and in the process start to see more love – happiness, success, appreciation, joy, peace, support, abundance, etc.– show up in your life.
Monthly Focus on One Branch of Self-Love to take you deeper into self-love – including self-compassion, self-care, self-empowerment, self-esteem, self-worth and all 10 branches + the roots of self-worth.
Weekly Self-Love Guidance and Inspiration to keep you connected to your commitment to yourself – every week you will receive simple but mighty inspiration and guidance on how to make self-love tangible in your life, in formats you will LOVE! This isn’t about having more to do, it’s about giving yourself permission to choose loving acts and thoughts in your everyday life, and build a relationship with yourself so you can make sure you are living what your heart and soul truly desires.
Magical Online Community for Connection + Inspiration – hang out with us in our private Facebook community where Love Club members share what they are discovering about whatever branch we’re growing… come here to receive love and give love… and connect with like-hearted peeps! I am here almost every day, as is Stacey Hoffer our Love Club hostess with the mostess. We will be there to love all over you!
A Love Club “Hub” where you can get all the content from any month you are a member – you won’t have to search your mailbox for emails when you want to find a meditation or video, you’ll be able to go to the online Love Club Hub and easily search by branch for the inspiration and content you are looking for.
Special gifts + surprises + random acts of love from Christine through the month – You just never know when a boost of love is going to find its way to you, just when you need it.
“While we all want to love ourselves, doing it on a daily basis can be challenging. And I just want you to know that it’s not your fault that it can be so hard. You were brought up with the Self Sacrifice Handbook (that said you had to give and give, that your value only came from giving to others) and the Self Esteem Handbook (that said you had to do, be and have it all to be enough)… Neither of these handbooks leads to happiness and true success… that’s why I wrote the Self-Love Handbook, Madly in Love with ME, the Daring Adventure to Becoming Your Own Best Friend and why I have created the Love Club… to make loving yourself more possible, more tangible and more fun! If you are committed to your relationship with yourself and to creating a world full of love, you are invited to join the Love Club, we’d LOVE to have you!”
– Marci Shimoff, NY Times Best Selling Author of Love For No Reason
“Unafraid to break old paradigms and release limiting patterns, Christine is a true teacher, who shares from what she herself has learned. Best of all, you can always count on Christine for a fun, daring & powerful adventure.”
– Kristine Carlson, NY Times Best Selling Author “Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff for Women”
– Rhonda Britten, Emmy Award winner, author of Fearless Living
More Questions? Email our Love Club Member Love-line at firstname.lastname@example.org and a member of Team Love will get back to you within 48 business hours.
– Vida Olivares
Come with us and connect to your higher wisdom, learn how to put yourself truly first without apology, and be empowered by how wise your inner wisdom actually is. You will NEVER look back.”
– Trelle Dandridge
– Karen Carnahan
“The Love Club is a constant reminder to love myself unconditionally. When life gets hectic and busy it’s sometimes easy to start putting yourself later on the list, but seeing the Love Club emails and being part of the Love Club community gives me an opportunity to renew my vows to myself… to love myself and take time for myself no matter what.
“The Love Club community has been amazing. I didn’t expect it to be this warm and open and communicative. The support and new friendships are great. It has led to everything in my life changing!”
“In the Love Club, I’m getting the right information and support and have felt a big shift in my life. I have become happier through the self-exploration and I’m finding out it is okay to love me for who I am. Thank you for opening my eyes, my heart and my soul in a way I never thought possible.”
“The Love Club has really helped me be kinder to myself and I’ve stop judging myself so harshly. The support I receive means SO much to me. The fresh, vibrant, radiant presence of Christine is my inspiration to stay positive and kind to myself.”
“The Love Club reminds me of what’s important , especially during those times when I get drawn into the day-to-day stresses and I start venturing off-center.”
“The Love Club has been the best thing I have ever done for myself in my life. Since joining the Love Club I have felt support, learned so many tools and ways to comfort and trust myself. I still have more to grow but I have gained confidence and a voice to be heard in the world. I am so grateful for the Love Club community to ask questions and receive answers. The Love Club and Christine’s teachings offer hope and belonging.”